The art or science( whatever you call it) of gold digging in
relationships has been around for a long time, so many people now see
it as just one of those soon-to-be legit ways of getting rich. A gold
digger is someone(usually female) who tries to attract a target into
a relationship with either lust or love while having his or her main
interest in taking a cut of the persons wealth.
How many times have you stumbled upon news of some wealthy old
man, who could just be at the edge of his grave, walking down the
aisle with a lady fit to be his grand daughter. And then when he dies,
series of legal battles would be fought by the man's widow. After
which she would likely walk away with mega bucks to start a new life.
Take it or leave it, we just have to give these suberb women some
well deserved accolades. I know how difficult it can be getting these
very intelligent and conservative men to do a thing for you, but for
these ladies? the're damn experienced. Hey let's clear this, she's not
a gold digger because she's married to a rich man, but she's guilty as
charged if her intents are trained on the man's fortunes. Gold diggers
are at all levels, superclass, highclass, middleclass,low life,
ghettos.
Next question, how in the world are you going to know that
girl's just some low life bitch out to suck you dry.
Understand what a gold digger is and is not: There's no wrong in
someone being concerned about your finances and what you do to earn a
living. The marked difference between a gold digger and a true lover
is that the gold digger will simply leave you when she thinks that
"thing" that brought her in the first place is no longer there. A good
lover among other things appreciates your finances, but a gold diggger
has just your finances in mind and will see you as a time waster if
you're not well kitted.
No cash no affection
Does the amount of affection she displays depend solely on the
amount of money you spend on her. She's just against splitting the
bill or having to pay for dinner, 'cause that would mean the essence
the whole thing is just fucked up. But she suddenly turns you to her
"sweetheart" when you take her shopping and on very expensive dates.
She doesn't care about work or the challenges you could be facing at
work, she may ask as matter of being sneaky, she just needs the
details of the figures.
Get a bit of interest on her facial expressions when you both
are discussing your job. What happens to her eyes the moment she hears
about the chances of your getting a major promotion at the office. Are
her eyes dead slits whenever you're talking about your activities at
the office, but immediately light up the moment you tell her pay day's
at the corner. These are bad signals bro. You need to act fast before
you go neck-deep.
And hey, just be sure that the moment you state your intentions
of leaving your current corporate group to pursue your agriculural
dreams, its like telling her not to waste her time on you.
Rate her standards.
Does she prefare having an expensive course when the both of you are
on a lunch date? Does she just prefare those expensive bags and
stylish clothing that come at a huge price tag, not caring about your
purchasing power. What are her expressions when you suggest a
particular purse or gown, she would definitely refuse. Not because
you're a guy and may not be good in lady choices but because she has
googled the price of that item. She knows she would be plain stupid
picking such a cheap item that wouldn't make a dent in your pocket.
Know this, gold diggers have details of the latest designer
stuffs available on online stores all at her finger tips. Common
remarks could just be "its a pretty gown, but I prefare that pink
colored tube, I want to look good for you".
Unlimited bills to pay
She always drop hints that she has issues paying her bills. She
comes to you for everything money,asking for loans (don't be decieved,
she won't pay them back). You might even begin to wonder how she was
surviving before you came along. Most gold diggers are well
experienced and prefare using their money to buy useless and expensive
items, while leaving you to solve their needs.
Suggest some ways she could raise money apart from your pocket.
What was her reaction when you suggested she could rather ask somebody
else for her needs, or consider selling some of her expensive items.
If she's a gold digger her face would surely fall, she could even
accuse you of not wanting to help her. Man, excep you are blind, but
if you're reading this then you need to on your way.
She always think She deserves it.
She thinks she's too pretty, talented and brilliant, and so as her
price tag she demands some expensive treatment. She feels she deserves
a ward robe loaded with expensive designer clothings. She's full of
dreams of being in powerful positions, but then at who's cost?
Listen to her questions
Maybe on the long run some of this question may come at the right
time, but then, a few days after she has met you? Bro, you need to
open your eyes! These are sure red flag questions:
*What's your yearly income? Why does she ask. Well as a gold
digger, she just has to calculate your income so she wouldn't be
ignorant of what she "deserves". Again, this should notbe hinged on as
a proof she's a gold digger. No! There's nothing wrong in a lady
friend politely asking how much you make. But on the part of the gold
digger, her impatience will like give her out(if you're Smart). She
just may not be interested in getting to know much about your
personality before you paycheck details.
*What's your property profile? How many cars, do you own a
house. What's the worth of. Your collections if you have.
* who is invoved in your wealth. In Africa this is necessary
for gold diggers to know. This is because they are aware that the
man's family will and childre could join in the battle of getting a
significant amount of your cash. She needs to make sure she would
receive something tangible.
Can't just do anything for you
Does she ever offer to run errands for you, gold diggers could
really be lazy and arrogant people who just find it difficult helping
people run errands. Does she feel reluctant when you tell her to help
you do your laundry or prepare a meal. She would definitely suggest
dinner not in cafe but in a restaurant( not a cheap one anyway).
What level of gratitude does she display when you buy her gifts or
take her on dates. It still boils down to I-deserve-it attitude.
Play this joke on her: Tell her you want to leave your job to
pursue your dreams of a career in auto mechanic, or some other pipe
dream like starting up a business from scratch. Does she raise an
alarm, telling you conclusively that its a wrong decision. A woman who
is concerned about your success will take time to find out if its a
decision to take at that time. Gold diggers are not just interested in
a guy-in-the-making.
In conclusion, these babes aren't spoilt brats, the're expensive
and cunning gold diggers, just call them and tell them you have just
lost all your fortunes in a failed business or that you've lost your
job and there's the likelyhood that cashflow may reduce. If she makes
an attempt to console you and give you advice on a few step you could
take in the right way,then she may just be really interested in your
success in life. The gold digger might just hang up on you.But if the
second happens, run.
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