STELLA DAMASUS TIPS LADIES ON ABUSIVE RELATIOINSHIP.

Stella Damasus recently revealed on her blog that she was once in
an abusive relationship with a guy who just did not care about her
feeling and abused her physically and verbally. She shared a brief story
of how her relationship with the guy started and how she was able to
pull herself out.
At the end of the story, the nollywood actress had the following
tips for ladies. She termed it "how the abuser operates":
...Gets to know your weakness and uses to gain your trust.
...Tells you things you would like to hear.
...Gets rid of everyone around you who could help you when you need them.
...Makes you emotionally dependent on you.
...Fills your head with stuff, you think will be good in your relationship.
...Uses your emotion and mind to control your reasoning.
...Keeps on repeating negative things to your ears.
...Blames you for everything, even the ones you don't know about.
...Gives you the impression, he's doing you a favour by being with you.
...He gets physical, while getting your forgiveness.
...Gives his love as excuse for his madness.
...Compares you to others and tells you that you are not just worth.
...Batters you mind and numbs your feelings when he starts beating you.